Sunday, 5 May 2024

Heartbroken mother of Julie (18) who took her own life after sex assault issues warning to teens

THE heartbroken parents of a teenage girl who took her own life after being sexually assaulted are sharing her story with the hopes of making young people aware of dangerous predators.

Anna Crowe’s daughter, Julie Crowe (18), from Dunshaughlin, Co Meath, died by suicide three months after returning home from a holiday to Zante in Greece in August, where she was sexually assaulted in her sleep.

She said Julie, who had just finished her first year in college, was excited as she had never gone on a trip abroad with friends before.

However, the excitement was short lived as five days into the holiday, Julie was assaulted twice by two different men in a nightclub, and was then raped by a third man in a separate incident two nights later.

The first assault happened when a man forced his tongue in her mouth, and the second occurred later on in the night when she was on the way to the club bathroom.

Julie told her mother that another man had pushed her up against a wall, and attempted to put his hand in her underwear.

After a struggle, she ran into the bathroom where she locked herself into a toilet. She later returned to her friends on the dance floor.

Julie was then assaulted two nights later by a man her friends had brought back to their apartment after a night out.

Julie, who was asleep when the assault happened, made an appointment with her college counsellor after her friends remembered finding the man in the room when checking on her.

“It was on foot of that session that he refused to let her leave without her ringing one of her parent,” Anna told Liveline.

“She phoned me in work and said, ‘Mum, I’ve something more to tell you. I was raped in Greece’.”

Julie received medical assistance, and reported the incident to gardai.

On November 4, Julie told her parents she didn’t feel well enough to go to college.

Later that day, Julie’s body was found by her father after he read a letter she left detailing where she would be.

“The worse thing was she had been doing so well. She told everybody. Everybody she talked to said she had been handling it really well,” Gary said.

Now, Anna and Gary are sharing Julie’s story to make parents and young people aware of potential predators.

“It’s not to sensationalise the trauma of what she suffered. It’s in the hope that maybe parents and young people will be just aware that there are predators out there targeting young guys and girls.

“I do believe Julie was targeted in the sense that she was just so innocent.

“She is the victim of tragic circumstances. She was in the wrong place, with the wrong people at the wrong time,” Anna said.

If you have been affected by any issues raised in this article, you can contact Samaritans helpline 116 123, or the Rape Crisis Centre on 1800 778 888.

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