‘We are ashamed we have to do this’: Couple with seven young children open up a GoFundMe after having their benefits slashed – leaving them just £480-a-month to survive on and forcing them to rely on food banks

• Ryan Rodgers, 26, and his partner Jenny Grimes, 25, have had their benefits cut
• Couple say they have only £480 to live on for themselves and their seven kids
• They say have to rely on food banks, help from charities and offers from family 

Ryan Rodgers, 26, and Jenny Grimes, 25, say they used to receive £2,100 a month in financial support but the introduction of the benefit cap has left their finances decimated

A couple with seven young children say they are struggling to survive after their benefits were slashed and have opened a GoFundMe page to ask for help. 

Ryan Rodgers, 26, and his partner Jenny Grimes, 25, from Kirkby, Liverpool say they used to receive £2,100 a month in financial support but the introduction of the benefit cap has left their finances decimated.

In theory, the family receive £669.50 a month once the benefit cap and the cost of renting their home is deducted.

But in practice, they say they have to survive on just £480 a month, because money is deducted for the advance payment they received when they first moved onto Universal Credit.

The advance payment is a loan applicants can get to cover the five-week wait before their first payment, but it has to then be paid off in future weeks.

As a result, the nine-strong family, with their children all aged seven and under, are having to regularly rely on food banks, help from charities and favours from friends and family.

But their situation has got so desperate that they have decided to go public about their struggle, and ask for cash donations from strangers in an online fundraising appeal.

Ms Grimes says that her and her partner are ‘ashamed’ at having to ask for donations. 

Their seven children are Ellie, seven, six-year-old twins Kenzie and Kelsie, Laysie, four, Archie, two and two twin boys who are only seven months – Tobie and Rylie.

They currently live in a three bedroom property in north Liverpool, paying £675 for rent.

Ellie, seven, six-year-old twins Kenzie and Kelsie, Laysie, four, Archie, two and two twin boys who are only seven months old – Tobie and Rylie

The family used to be homeless and had to live in a Premier Inn hotel, paid for by the council.

On GoFundMe, Ms Grimes said: ‘We are a young couple with seven children trying to get back on our feet after becoming homeless having to start all over again from fresh.

‘We have been benefit capped to the bare minimum and we are really struggling to get by.

‘Our situation is being much more a struggle with Christmas being only a few weeks away.

‘We feel really ashamed to have to do this as we’ve never had to do anything like this before.

‘I hate to have to do this and it’s took a lot for me to actually do it, but there is only so much we can do as a family.

‘Any help at all is very much appreciated, even if you could point me in the direction of getting some help. Thank you.’  

Mr Rodgers, who used to work in restaurants as a waiter, said he had been washing cars to pay for his family’s electricity bills.

Ms Grimes says that her and her partner are ‘ashamed’ at having to ask for donations, adding that they were previously homeless

His plight has affected his mental health and he suffers from depression and anxiety, describing how his situation has left him feeling ‘useless’.

It also led to him becoming an alcoholic, which he has now battled through.

A charity called Care UK, based in Warrington, have been invaluable, the father said, providing the family-of-nine with regular food parcels.

Mr Rodgers, who has been with Ms Grimes for seven years, said: ‘With Christmas, there’s so much we need but can’t provide for the kids as a family.

‘It’s got to the stage where we’ve got to do something about it. Food banks only go so far. It’s a real struggle.

‘I have friends without children who get more than us. Just the one baby costs £40 a week.

‘I want to get full-time work but I can’t with the kids.

‘We have to speak out, we’ve not go a choice, it’s no longer how I feel, the children are the priority.

‘We need an opportunity.  It’s out of order we can just be left to get on with it.

‘We’ve been set up to fail as parents by the state.

‘There’s nobody to contact about our situation, the Job Centre workers just tell us it’s not their department.

‘Decisions have been made at a really high level and that’s just the way it is.

‘It’s demoralising, going to food banks and them knowing your first name and talking to you as your friend.

‘It’s not nice to have to ask for help, but we have to.’

The Lib Dem-Conservative Coalition government introduced the benefit cap in 2013. 

At the time of the introduction, the government said it was designed to cap benefits to the average working wage of £500 a week (£2,000 a month).

It was further reduced in 2016 to £384.62 a week for couples outside greater London (£1,538 a month).

A DWP spokesperson said: ‘The benefit cap was introduced to encourage people to seek work by ensuring their maximum income on benefits does not exceed that of a household in work.’

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